Y’know, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half now, and this is how it went:
I started out smitten, crazy about him.. In total lust. Thinking of our future, you know.. The typical female reaction to a new relationship. That calmed down though, and then I got to this point where I didn’t want to think about the future.. I couldn’t see myself spending forever with him, not because we didn’t have a good relationship, but because I thought thinking like that was just crazy to do that soon and this young. In recent weeks, however, my mindset has shifted yet again. Its as if I’ve finally found contentment within our relationship. Maybe its just because we’ve grown into the couple we were meant to be? The fighting has stopped (however, I openly admit that I was at fault for most of them for continuously being a stubborn ass), and though as individuals we aren’t exactly the happiest right now, as a couple I feel like we’re doing well. We’ve kind of morphed into a team. Its us against the world. He’s my best friend. He’s the one person in the world who, with a simple touch, can instantly soothe me or calm my nerves. He’s my safe haven. I’m not saying I’m going to spend the rest of my life with him, because I still believe that I’m too young to know things like that, but at this point, I can’t quite see my life without him in it. I feel like we’ve reached a really amazing point in our relationship. Its perfectly healthy, we don’t fight, if we do have any issues with the other we solve them in the calmest of manners, and when we’re together we work as one, not as two separate beings.
Today isn’t a special day, it isn’t an anniversary or any such day of importance, I’m simply happy with him, and I needed to share my happiness somehow. He’s the best part of my life now, and as important to me as my own family. Happy Thursday to all who actually took the time out of their days to read this, and I hope each and every one of you find happiness in the way I have if you haven’t already!